[Takket]

Let's say I have a Nor. Can I beam my incompatible people from my ship onto that Nor?

Glossary seems to say I can do that.......... since the rules about beaming onto a Nor were changed a while back...

Glossary under using facilities:

Your cards must be compatible with a facility (except a Nor) to report to, dock at, or enter the facility. They may report to or dock at any Nor according to the text of its site cards. They may board a Nor and exit from any facility even if incompatible with the facility. (See beaming.)

[Ashigaru]

Looks to me like you cited the pertinent language. Rulebook only provides that you can't beam your personnel aboard a SHIP they're incompatible with (because you'd be creating house arrest)