If I could sum up my experience with RoS in one word it would be: Clarifying.
It allowed me to figure out where I stand with the Star Wars universe and it's here: I stopped being emotionally invested in Star Wars circa 1998.
That's right. Nothing added in the last 20+ years has really moved the needle for me.
Give me the Special Edition original trilogy, which was a great facelift, and the Zahn books (Thrawn Trilogy for sure + Spectre of the Past and Vision of the Future I suppose) and I'm good.
How did RoS get me to this conclusion you ask? Anything that hit me in the feels had a tie to the above, and everything else, well, at best didn't hit me in the feels, and at worst made me roll my eyes at a shallow rehash.
Even the original characters didn't do much for me. Luke has been an old whiny douchebag this entire trilogy, and Han and Leia's story is really sad after leaving RotJ on a high optimistic note. Nate said something similar in the TFA thread a couple years ago and now that I've fully processed this trilogy, I've come to the conclusion that he was right.
Two things that did work for me were
and - the best part of the whole movie for me -
Why were those the high notes? Because it took me back to a time when I cared about the story. And there was just enough of that to allow me to differentiate the few grains of emotional wheat from the large chunks of meaningless chaff.
So I guess in that sense, I'm grateful to JJ Abrams for giving me that clarity and emotional closure. I still enjoy watching eps IV-VI and reading Zahn (and I'll definitely be giving the new Thrawn book a read as well), and while there's popcorn eating fun to be had in the newer movies - especially Solo where Woody Harrelson steals every scene he's in and carries that movie far beyond what it would've been without him - I'm content with where Star Wars ended up in the late 20th Century before that prequel mess.
Maybe I'm a product of my time, but that's ok too.